Ani DiFranco showed musical growth on her second album, playing her guitar more fluidly and adding occasional harmony vocals on the choruses and even the occasional bit of percussion. Her songs had more structured melodies with shorter, more direct lyrics that sounded more like song lyrics and less like free-form poetry than those on her first album. And her subject matter also saw changes, as she for the most part moved beyond the edgy breakup songs of her debut to less personal, more political concerns, including an attack on the music business ("The Next Big Thing"). But there still was personal material, notably two songs, "She Says" and "The Whole Night," that contemplated lesbianism. These tended to undercut the point of the album's most striking track, "Gratitude," whose general point -- that women's bodies are their own and they shouldn't have to put out if they don't want to -- was of course well taken, even if its specific circumstances were suspect: If you don't want a guy to put the moves on you, maybe you shouldn't get into bed with him. ~ William Ruhlmann, All Music Guide
Mr. Ruhlmann's review is incredibly offensive and completely inappropriate. I strongly question whether Mr. Ruhlmann is even remotely qualified to review or comment on Ani's political statements since he obviously has understood so little of what she says. Furthermore, his offensive, sexist and judgmental comments really have nothing to do with her musical ability. For these reasons I strongly suggest that you remove Mr. Ruhlmann's review of "Not So Soft."
Moreover, Mr. Ruhlmann homophobically states that the queer subject material of these two songs somehow detracts from the album. This is a rather bigoted point of view and makes me wonder whether Mr. Ruhlmann is at all familiar with Ani's music, since she is so outspoken about issues of gender and sexuality.
Furthermore, Mr. Ruhlmann comments that two of the songs on this album which "contemplate lesbianism" "undercut the point of the album's most striking track." First of all, if Mr. Ruhlmann knew anything about Ani, he would be aware that she identifies as queer or bisexual, not lesbian or "contemplating lesbianism" -- which offensively implies that being gay is trendy or fashionable.
And even if it was, it still wouldn't be her fault if she was raped in that situation. Mr. Ruhlmann's comment that she shouldn't have gotten in bed with him if she didn't want to have sex (or get raped, more appropriately) is completely absurd, offensive and reinforces rape-culture. Women are not sex-machines always open for business.
This comment has nothing to do with Ani's music and is victim-blaming, sexist, and reinforces rape-culture. If you listen to the lyrics of "Gratitude" you'll find that Ani is describing a situation in which someone gave her a place to sleep and then tried to rape her. Clearly it's not like she was making out with someone and then refused when they did something she didn't like, as Mr. Ruhlmann implies.
I'd like to ask that you find a different review of Ani DiFranco's "Not So Soft" to post on that album's page. Mr. Ruhlmann's commment about "Gratitude" that "If you don't want a guy to put the moves on you, maybe you shouldn't get into bed with him" is extremely offensive.