Living on a Spiritual plane not a religiously bias plane. The most important thing to me is my right relations with the God of my understanding. Believing that if I continuously accept that I am powerless of people, places, things, and situations that I can then allow the God of my understanding to become the power source which I need. For my dilemma is a lack of power. Since He has all power. His power can then do for me what I cannot do for myself: For HIS POWER can then save me from the destruction of my own will. Thus allowing His will to guide and protect me from the things that I am powerless over, because He has all power. In essence allowing God to be God. Taking me out of self and having selfish behaviors. Therefore, letting my will become non-existent and His will being the most important Then, I can find gratitude when I know that He is loving, caring and understanding and not vengeful, and scary, or wants to send me to Hell.